Instead of saying that is ‘wrong” why not say “it is not right for me”? Instead of saying this is ‘bad’ why not say “this is bad for me”?
Why not make this a simple daily practice? To reflect a little and realize that what is good for us is not necessarily good for the other. The only ones we really know what is right for is ourselves. To hold the belief that we know what is good for the other is but a reflection of ourselves not truly seeing the other. So watch your words on a daily basis and notice how often we do this.